Desde que nacemos empezamos a recibir instrucciones acerca de lo que debemos hacer y lo que no debemos hacer, lo que está bien según la comunidad, país en que nos criamos y lo que no; ejemplo en nuestros países latinos es muy común estas frases: "que van a pensar los vecinos, si te ven hacer tal cosa..." o la típica: "¿Qué va a pensar la gente? ..." Si haces esto, si andas con fulano o no te pongas eso, no digas tal cosa. Siempre coartándonos casi que en todos los aspectos de nuestra vida. Yo me crie oyendo estas oraciones casi que a diario, que terminaban, "¿qué va a decir la gente?".

FuenteA la Niña de mis OjosTenía tiempo, que quería hacerte saber de manera más expresa, más directa lo que siento y pienso, porque sé que, desde hace algún tiempo, quieres tener un acercamiento mucho más, profundo de lo que acostumbramos. No te pregunto como estás, porque sé cómo te encuentras, he seguido tus pasos, tus días, en todo momento; veo tus días, tus rutinas y veo tus luchas externas e internas, día con día; sé que piensas que no ando cerca en algunos momentos, que me hablas y tus palabras caen en el olvido, que desearías, que llegara de improviso y te abrazara calmándote los pesares, las angustias, las tristezas... estoy, pero apenas te das cuenta...

ENGLISHThere are several types of emotions, but to simplify them we are going to specify them between the positive and the negative ones. Among the latter, the negative ones, there is an emotion of this branch that I would like to suppress and it is anxiety and I would love to disappear completely; in fact it is a constant challenge to keep it at bay today, because there are some days more than others depending on the situation I am living, which wants to become the protagonist of my existence, more, however, I have not let it prosper fortunately, but it has been a constant struggle.

Come with me to visit again the café El Venerable. I was near the Catholic church La Candelaria, where the mortal remains of the now Saint Dr. José Gregorio Hernández rest, in Caracas, Venezuela. This church is very popular among the devotees, apart from the fact that now in a small annex of the church, they installed this original coffee, which is on one side of the place, which I had visited for the first time almost a year ago and they were just organizing it at that time, more, however, I had the opportunity to enjoy an excellent coffee outdoors, on that occasion, where they have an outdoor umbrella and comfortable chairs arranged for that purpose.

Source/ FuenteENGLISHBy the time I was 10 years old, my life had already taken some significant changes. I grew up until I was 7 with my maternal grandmother; then by the time I was 10 years old I was already living with my parents, in the capital city of my country, living for years in a beautiful small town, it was quite a contrast to come to live in the city, where the environment was quite different; From growing up among trees and pets, without so many schedules, to being in a house that only had a small yard and with many more rules, besides being an only child, until then, those days were not very entertaining until the summer vacations came, which here in my country, coincide with school vacations and some holidays, where it is not customary to work, in many sectors.

Source/ FuenteThese days, reviewing my networks, I saw a young mother who was debating between following and fighting for her dreams, her goals and between being a mother present almost 100% and it is a dilemma that many mothers have and much more when for whatever reason, we are dedicated to working from home and it is precisely that many of us choose to work at home to be more vigilant and present for our children. But this modality has its pros and cons.