SpanishLas madres tienen un fuerte apego a sus hijos, sin importar la situación. Este fuerte apego se debe al estrés que experimentaron al dar a luz. La mayoría vivió un infierno al dar a luz. Siendo sincera, no es fácil, si se me permite decirlo, para la mayoría de las madres, especialmente para las embarazadas. Llevar un embarazo así desde el primer día hasta el noveno mes es algo por lo que las felicito sinceramente.

SpanishLa vida es de altibajos; mi vida ahora es mejor que antesLa vida nos da la oportunidad de hacer las cosas bien y, al mismo tiempo, de cometer los peores errores debido a nuestras ideas superficiales. Todos deseamos tomar la mejor decisión, pero lograrla es lo más difícil. Hace un tiempo, cuando era niño, no sabía qué camino tomar en cuanto a mi educación. Me esforcé mucho por tomar una decisión, y realmente tomé la mejor. Mi elección fue ser ingeniero eléctrico y estaba trabajando para lograrlo. Leía, pero no me interesaban las matemáticas. Siempre he fracasado en matemáticas porque me resultaba difícil.

A Day Never Spent This year will be an exceptional year. It will be a year to reamember and a year that harbours greatness. 2025 is another year filled up with good tidings and tender hearts' movement. A year that we will all live to remember. Yesterday which was a day the 1st of January, a day that opened the beginning of the new year was a day to remember. I have always celebrated a day like this, but this one was exceptional. First we went to Church to serve our father and then prayed for a good beginning. It was a great night leading to a great and new beginnings of a new year. We all prayed fervently for things we all wished for.

I have seen this as a routine and something I cannot run from no matter what. I'm not that kind of man that would leave the kitchen just to their wives alone. Likewise, I can make it possible to prepare food for my wife in the kitchen. The fact remains that, most men do put usually pride just to avoid going to the kitchen. Some would even say their culture does not allow a man to go to the kitchen. This is what I cannot take even though culture does not permit it. I do not marry my wife to stay in the kitchen alone, but get married to her to help me in my life. I have been seeing the effect of having her as my wife.

I was just in the village after completing my polytechnic for about six months. Although I have been trying to get a job all my efforts were proven to be abortive. The more I tried, the more my chances of securing a job kept depreciating. One fateful day, I received a call from my friend telling me to come over to Lagos. First, I asked him to give me a hint of the kind of job I will be doing. He could not waste anytime without spilling out what he wanted me to do. I reasoned it out, and I thought over it over the night and finally got an answer. I said to him that I will be coming over to Lagos since it would be a stepping stone to my greatness. Meanwhile, we had promised each other that we would build our respective houses in the same place, (one in one side and the other in the second side but must be on the same land’.

Truth be told, it's not easy to take that from a child. I have seen so many parents who ended up sending such a child away just because got pregnant when she was supposed to be serious with her studies. Her parents have wasted a lot on her and even bought her so many textbooks just for her life to be better in the future. Most parents would say ‘I have invested a lot in you just for your life to be better in the future and now bringing pregnancy home?’