In this modern age, I don't know how to describe the method of upbringing, as this generation believes in practicing gentle parenting, stating that corporal punishment is too harsh and can traumatize a child.In the 80s, my grandma would always tell me that it's a shame for a young girl to be caught misbehaving. Are you planning on disgracing your family? Back then, there is no female child who doesn't know how to cook, clean, sweep, or take care of themselves. As a lady, you can't stay out of your house late, except if you went for a dance practice or tales by moonlight.