The whole scene of going out and also the era of dating apps if primarily over. I ended up getting drug out by a guy that goes to my gym. A 24 year old military vet. We just randomly were at the gym at the same time and were just talking in the parking lot afterwards and he was wanting to go out.
I told him there isn't really anything out there. Sure enough it was real thin and no women to talk to. Extreme low quality scene. I expected that because nothing has ever went back to pre covid activity and even then it wasn't anything special.
I told him our only shot was to head to another town. Some of these places spent the money to make the atmosphere right but everything has fallen apart. Most men have given up completely and are just getting high and playing video games.
In situations in the past if they went out women would act real abrasive and act like the guys were creeps even if the guys comparatively had a better look compared to the women.
We hopped to one last place which used to have a line out the door years ago. It was pretty flat overall but there were 3 sets of women to talk to which wasn't good.
One chick I challenged to a game of pool and my friend verbally said he was betting $20 on me. She already was going to be playing a couple other people so I figured we would talk to some other chicks. We were talking to a group of 3 very basic chicks. They acted extremely awkward. Even spitting elite game it wasn't going anywhere.
We then moved on to the two hottest girls in the bar. We honestly really did work an elite set with them. Had them laughing. We were throwing popcorn trying to land it in their mouth from 10 feet away and they were doing the same to us.
The one chick i was focused on was 5'10" blonde hair and blue eyes. I measured my hand against hers. Mine was bigger which i knew would be the case and i know it sounds silly but women like guys with big hands and that is one way I initiate physical contact with women.
The other girl was 24 and the chick I was focused on was 25.
My buddy noticed the other chick had a picture of a baby on her phone. He asked if she was a mom and she said she was and was going through a divorce.
The chick I was mainly focused on said something to the effect that they became moms kind of early. A few other things were said and my buddy said, "Let's get out of here." We bounced out. Didn't get their contact info or any of that.
What you realize is the stock is so low in the United States it has become embarasing.
One of the biggest things that throws it off is social media. Women get so much attention now and when we view attention as a currency women think they are way more valuable than guys who are way more built up than them.
A lot of the upper caliber 8s and 9s in their early to mid 20s who aren't single moms are remaining single or possibly going lesbian for awhile. I have seen this A LOT lately.
The nightlife scene, the dateing apps, and being able to approach chicks and have decent conversion is over in the United States.
There should be no wonder why young men are giving up. They are being asked to work for free to maybe get a half smile from an overweight single mom. They would rather play video games and get high.
I'm going to lift now. I have to be ready to join an Amish community!