Mothers are god, they are irreplaceable, they are everything a child could asked or wished for. Mothers are the best friend any child could dream of having because they are always looking out for their children, a mother will go through any kind of torment for her children and family just to see them happy at her own detriment. A mother is always ready to stand up for her children even when the whole world is against them, she is a caregiver, a protector, an angel, a fighter, and sometimes a sacrificial lamb all for the sake of her children and family.
Mothers are the best gift a child could wish for, she wakes up early and sleeps late to take care of the house and family. She is always on her watch for any harm that might want to come against her family. A mother is a counselor, an advicer, a prophet, and a pathfinder.
Going through the pain of pregnancy and child labour, mothers should be worshipped because they deserve the best. In this process, many mothers lost their lives while those that survived knew it was a narrow escape which they will forever remain grateful for. After this phase, raising the child is the next big step, you might be wondering what's the big deal in raising a child?
Raising a child is a big deal because any fault in the life of such child will be traced to the mother, this is why mothers are always adviced to take good care of their children. In my tribe, successful children are for the fathers while the ones that had one or more challenges are for the mothers. Why is it so?
Why must mothers be blamed for the children's mistake?
Mothers aren't the one to blame for their children's misfortune though some mothers are responsible for their children's downfall but in my tribe we are made to understand that " children have no right to chastise their parents no matter how bad they might be especially the mothers". Under no circumstances should a child talk back at his or her mother because they are referred to as sacred being.
In the journey of life, even when a child is well brought up such a child might decided to derail from the mother's good teaching and choose his or her own path no matter how hard the mother tried to make him or her see the truth. Afterall at a certain age of a child, the parent can only advice it is left to such child to take it or not. If it happens that such child refused the advice of the mother and eventually took the wrong steps in life, the blames are directed to the mother which is not suppose to be.
These are pains that mothers go through and at the end of the day, some children don't regard their mothers. Disrespecting your mother can bring curse on such child because the holy book also make it clear the blessings in obeying our parents.
The joy of a mother
The success of a child is what makes the hard work of the mother pays, when a child is successful and he or she is living a comfortable life the mother looks back on her labour and hard work in the past years and breath a sign of relief. When a child listen to his or her mother's advices and advances in life, the mother is happy, when a child got married and is enjoying a faultless and happy marriage, the mother is happy. These are the things that brings mothers joy, happiness and peace of mind.
In conclusion
Mothers are gold, they are rare gem who cannot be bought anywhere. And to everyone who had lost their mothers, may you be relieved and enjoy peace of mind in every areas.
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