It takes a lot of strength in realizing that not everyone needs to like you, understand you. Society with its norms often predefine rules and expect us to fit into predefine and roles. Yet, the reality is that you are not here to please everyone, because you cannot–and that’s perfectly okay.
We, human beings, are born with different personalities, different ideas, different mindset and that’s the beauty of this creature. We all have our Owen dreams, our own fate, our own journey to complete. So, remember not everyone will connect with your ideas, dreams or the way you express yourself and that’s not something to be ashamed of. As Oscar Wilde says, “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” Instead of trying to comfort others, embrace yourself.
Some people may not resonate with you or even dislike you, not because you aren’t good, but simply because you doesn’t fit their definition of good. And believe me, this is not a shortfall–it’s a blessing that you are living a genuine life. The people who truly matter appreciate you, care for you, love you for who you are without any need for you to compromise.
I’m not saying that you should start breaking the basic law or ethic or moral codes just because your heart say so. But, stand firm with in your truth. Be rational and courageous. Remember: To be yourself in a fabricated world is the greatest accomplishment. So, take a step back, move forward and BE YOU!
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Peace 🕊
