I Learnt This

2025-05-20T18:03:57
Hello everyone, I hope you are doing very well and that your day went very well too. It's been a while since I came, so I am very excited to be here again.
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Today we are talking about what we unlearn in the past five years of our journey in life, and I have learned a lot and unlearned a lot of things about life in the past five years.
The past five years have taught a lot. Before now, I have been thinking that pride is when a person is very loud and full of his or herself, but the past five years have said no to that conception, as I have been fortunate to work with a lot of people, and I have learned now that a proud person must not be loud, as I have seen a lot of people who are quiet and calm but are full of themselves. I mean, they cannot even accept the fact that they are very proud and that they are so full of themselves.
In my journey of working with people, I met a young man who looked so calm and quiet. I liked him because I thought he would be the best team member. I remember that I would always tell some things before I even related it to the other group members. I trusted him because of his looks, and I was so calm but never knew that he was a wolf in sheep's clothing.
We started working on a music project, and it was my idea; I was the team leader. Everyone agreed on it, and they are so happy about it. I felt so safe because I was accepted by everyone. We would always go for rehearsals, and I remember that I used to ask them for their opinions about the project. I just love carrying people along .
I never knew that this guy was always recording our rehearsals with his phone. After some time, I noticed that he was not showing interest in the project anymore. He would always bring up the excuse of being very busy at home or something.
Two weeks to the excusion of the music project, I saw a video of the song on the social media platform with different voices not the ones I knew. I did not believe my eyes and ears and I was so shocked to the point of becoming sick and funny enough when I asked him about what happened and why he chose to do that to the team.
He said that he could not stand seeing the fact that I was the one leading the team for such a big project. I could not even cry; I was very scared of people from that time. I started having trust issues even until now.
That project was very soothing to the ears, and I wanted it to be the first ever for my music career, but it did not walk out.
I learned that people can look quiet but be very wicked at heart, so it is very important not to judge by looks.
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