What I Wish I Knew Before Chasing Success with Everything I Had

Life is very dynamic and everything that we are involved in does take a shift every noun then and it is quite unpredictable of believing the fact that if there is something that is going to stay the way test that it looks to be right now as we can never imagine I think that can so suddenly changes well and there is what is going to be the things that we believe in as well because as we grow up further we often face situations that we have never face before and that changes our perspective about a lot of things which we do hold firmly at a earlier stage of our life.

There have been a lot of such kind of thoughts for me as well which I used to believe white strongly and used to think that these are going to be the ones which are the reality about whatever I think them to be but slowly as I started to see more things and also notice a lot of the impact that it was causing I standing to question about those believes that I had a later on it meet me feel the feel that it might not be what I have the thing it to be and that is something which is a realisation that happened to a lot of us.

Those things are going to be the fat that I held during my teenage which was about been successful and that was simply that is going to be achieved by hard work and that was something which was very much promoted by people around me as well and that is something that I griv aap listening from all around me as well as also the movies and a lot of other environments I was involved in did propagate the same thought.

This idea was something that I held on to for a long period and also worked accordingly as I just wanted to be successful and for that I just did hard work without thinking anything else I did give in a lot of efforts without thinking about anything else if I am was facing any kind of failure I used to think that I just need to try a little bit harder and given more efforts and that is it which was the only mind set that I had because I used to think that success doesn't have anything else to do with any other fact which is just going to be continuously involved with only determination and the efforts that we put in.

However all of this started to change slowly because I used to just not care about Burnout and that did give in a lot of impact on my physical self as well and also made me feel very much drained mentally and the reason was because of me not getting the desired results even if I am giving in the best that I can and even pushing my boundaries and that was something which I realise myself because there are lot of the things as well that I need to be taken care of to reach the goal that we have set rather than blindly giving in the efforts.

I used to carry Burnout to be a badge of honour but that was something which was a stupid thing which I believe right nactually store down me and also meet my strength much more week to just give in the effort that were not targeted and also not planned in any way but just were something that were more emotionally driven that I had to just complete this task regardless whatever happen which eventually didn't gave the reserves that I desired most of the times.

Life suddenly started to feel very much wrong when I was in the beginning stages of realising all of the tests, because it was a very big struggle for me as I was not able to think about what was going wrong, even after so much effort that I was giving. After all, I initially thought of putting in more effort and trying to work even harder when I was feeling, but even after that, it was something that was not going to be the thing that I made to crack the thing that I was involved in.

I understand the fact that hard work is a very be factor towards success but surely it is not going to be the magic key that is going to open every lock and later on I started to develop other things is well and realise the fact that there are a lot of other factors as well that are needed to be ensured to be successful in which ever task we are involved in and that is going to be the only thing that will be having a greater impact towards success.

Later on my life became a lot for balance because I started to look for the things that I was doing wrong and also implement better strategies while making plans in order to reach my goals rather than just blindly giving in effort and the definition of success that I had previously also got changed because of all of this.

All in all thiy shifted my perspective about success and made me realise a lot of things because there are going to be a lot of factors that are going to be involved that I needed to be taken care of to reach a certain coal and all of this did make me feel like there is a lot to learn and nothing is going to be achieved by saying rigid at a particular place and we need to be quite flexible to just keep on learning and adapting to the Dynamic situations and we face.

Cheers!
Sayu

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