A little side discussion away from the contest.
Within the last three or four months I've sat and discussed with five men who wished they didn't get married.
I've tried to understand why or what their reasons might be, but they just can't pinpoint a particular reason why. But from the little I've heard them say. It's an issue of what the thought marriage might be isn't what they're getting.
Trust me, they love their kids, and don't regret having them. They are willing to die just to give their kids the best in life. Their issue is with their spouse.
And I'm sure their wives feel the same way too.
It makes me wonder what's wrong with the marriages of this generation. How did our parents get it right and we're not? Is there something we're doing wrong?
Sometimes, it tries to scare me from thinking about marriage. But I'm motivated by my parent's marriage that I'll get it right. I don't know how. But I promise my unborn kids that I'll give them my mum I'll be proud of and not regret marrying her.
So help me God.
Picture is mine