Don't even think to use your life like a yardstick for others. I mean there's a Lotta people you have never seen and probably will never see. Characters are so inhomogenous and numerous for one person to have a perfect blend of all of them. It's saddening when people think their life or the life of the people around them is the ultimate in this life.
Please let's stop the self righteousness and self Perfection...we are all flawed at some point