This might be irrelevant to some of you, but I have noticed it in myself, and in a lot of close people around me, and that is that we’re all confused. Hope this helps someone.
There comes a point in your life when you question everything. You question what you want to do with your life, with your relationships, careers, even the color of socks you want to put on that day lol. Truth is you’re not going to figure it out today, and sorry to say you probably won’t figure it out tomorrow either, but that’s okay! Keep the people that make you happy close to you, and focus on all the little things you can control.
When I was younger and I would picture my life at my age today, I can tell you that it is nowhere near how I thought it was going to be. Life is constantly changing, it’s okay to cry for a moment if your upset with the changes, but at some point, you must put on your super hero cape and handle your shit. We begin to cry and complain because we’re not happy because were stuck in this huge hole of hopelessness, and our life sucks and everything is just horrible. However, we don’t realize that the only person that put ourselves into that hole, is ourselves.
Everybody has their struggles, and there is always going to be confusion and struggles it’s not going to get easier. The magic of happiness is in the way you perceive things, sometimes you are put in shitty situations, but the only one that can dig you out of them is yourself. So fine… okay cry for a moment, no judgement. But once you let out your frustration, your anger, whatever it is your feeling. Afterwards you must stop feeling sorry for yourself! Don’t throw yourself a pity party, learn how to be happy while your figuring it all out. We all go through it. "learn how to dance in the rain"
so let’s change that perspective, be positive and positive things will come. Lets Try to end This year strong. Sending positive vibes
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