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I couldn’t make a post yesterday because of some activities beyond my control. I got back home really late and completely exhausted. But today, I’m here—and I want to share two things I am currently unlearning.
I believe growth isn't a magical word, it doesn't happen by chance. It happens when one take the initiative to change certain habits and mindset intentionally.
The first thing I am unlearning is always saying “yes,” even when it is inconvenient for me.
I chose people's comfort over my own peace. I accept everything they say as agreed to things I wasn't Okey with, just so I don't offend anyone.
Sadly, this has made them take undue Advantage and that hurt.
So now, I am unapologetically saying no to request, behaviours, and relationships that don't benefit me or align with my val or even contribute to my growth. Any relationship that is always at the receiving end is a " no" for me. Let's it be mutual.
I believe this chance will help my mental and emotional well-being.
The second thing I am unlearning is feeling guilty for choosing myself.
Recently I realised that prioritizing my well-being does not make me selfish—it makes me healthy. I am allowed to set boundaries, rest, grow, and protect my energy without explaining myself to everyone.
Unlearning isn’t easy, but it is necessary. And I’m proud of myself for choosing growth.