When you're single, your decisions are made by yourself
When you're born again, your decisions are made by us (Holy Spirit and you)
When you are married, your decisions are made by us (Holy Spirit, you and your spouse)
When you have children, your decisions are made by us(Holy Spirit, you, your spouse and children)
Therefore, the more you grow, the better natural and supernatural advisors you have and the better your decisions in life. Although it may also mean that your decisions will be made a little slower than your previous stage but the quality and excellency of your decisions unparalleled the cost of the delays as all your blind spots and unforeseen losses are being taken care of by your allies.