Each year, at Christmas or New Year, or mostly those quiet days in between the two festivals, I have a custom of giving a small plant and a card to the neighbours that share a drive with me.It started because I am never organised enough to arrange Christmas cards (although I buy them every year from the charity I like to support at this time of year) or neighbourly gatherings for mince pies and drinks. Somehow it was easier when my foster daughter was here, but since then, everything has drifted.