SourceThree words to answer this question: How can we have healthy relationships that bring us satisfaction? By using our imagination and finding practical solution for challenges we face in this journey. Last night I was craving to dance, and it was late at night and I had to sleep because I had so much to do in the morning. So, I imagined that I was dancing with a handsome guy who was alive only to bring me happiness. My mind did a great job in showing me what I really needed at that moment. I imagined our conversation and we spent a good time. It was basically me talking to myself, but I imagined the other Me to be a handsome guy. This was fun to do. Ideas came to my mind for solving a problem that I was struggling with.

SourceI always thought I could escape the reality I lived in and find someone similar to myself in terms of personality and behavior. And we both could go some place where we could be in love and live life with pleasure and so fully that we couldn't bear it. But, it was all a fantasy. I think we all need to be in some place new every once in a while. We need to meet new people who spark in us a magic that was extinguished by the routine of our lives. We all surely need it.

SourcePerfectionism has always been associated with being a negative quality of the personality, but yet there are so many people who deal with being a perfectionist, and they don’t know how to stop being a perfectionist. Or, how to lower the degree. When we talk about it, it rarely comes to mind that perfectionism could have benefits. At least sometimes and in some situations. I want to talk to you about the pros and cons of being and even staying a perfectionist.

SourceMy first experience of going through excruciating pain was when I was a teenager and I learned that I got my period. It was difficult for me because I didn't know what to do. Even though I knew what it was. I was scared because it was a new experience and it was a painful experience. As time passed, the pain I was experiencing through my period increased. I realized that I should go to a doctor. So, I did that. The test results came, and the doctor told me I have Sickle cell, but it is not of a dangerous kind. I can be better with some pills and vitamins.

SourceWhen you taught yourself how to try hard, you can also teach yourself to try harder. I think when you forget important things, that means you don't really care about them that much. When something matters to you, it means that it gives you pleasure. That's why you do it, because you want to always feel that pleasure.

SourceWhen I think about life, I see a mysterious energy that has consciousness and is super-intelligent. It doesn't want anyone to figure it out. It always wants to be unknown and by the look of it, it seems that many have tried to delve deeper into its secrets, and they all experienced destruction of the self.