This present generation are quick to accept the nature of a particular thing or person. In the side of a thing or object, individuals tends to judge the outer part of an object inside of investigating further to know how the inner part would like. Although they are both the same as most individuals as well judge the outer part of a person and concludes immediately that such a person is perfect. I will love to share a true life story to explain further. But before I start, this story is not to criticize any gender but just for the purpose of explaining why "parents should allow their children to marry who they love"
There was this beautiful young lady, that goes by the name Adaeze. She was a very disciplined and intelligent lady whom every parents in her community would want their daughter to emulate her character because, she was respectful, hardworking and God fearing. Adaeze was born into a humble home and was not envious of anyone. Even though she was not opportuned to go to university she was still better than most people that went to university because she was intelligent. As of that time she was in a relationship with an undergraduate student. Her parents were also in support of the relationship as well. Whenever there was a long vacation in school, her boyfriend, Ugochukwu, Ugo for short would visit her and they would spend quality time together to catch up. Things went on smoothly until when Ugo was in his final year. He wasn't coming back home like he used to due to the final year project he will write and his exams as well. At home Adaeze would call Ugo to know how he was coping in school but, each time she called she will not be able to reach him. This went on for some days, then months and even lasted up to year. She was restless. She even contacted his friends but all to no avail. Her friend Nnenna started to poison her mind by with statements like "your ugo has already been snatched by those university babes" and she should forget about him and move on with her life.
On one faithful evening, Adaeze was coming back from the market and was stopped by a man in a Lexus SUV to ask her for direction to a particular place. Fortunately for the man it was the same direction Adaeze was heading and asked her if she don't mind him dropping her, she politely declined but due to further persistence
