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This topic is kinda funny but to be honest, it is painful to be betrayed by someone you trust and love and it brings me to the question of "Why didn't he say he wasn't interested in going ahead with the marriage or marrying me instead of making me get to this point only to disappoint and betray me at the altar.
The shame, the pain, the years of trauma, and the marriage fear that accompanies this incident are not something I would want to experience, so it brings me to the conclusion that this, can never happen to me but for the sake of the prompt, "Left at the altar, you decide to seek revenge on your ex. Write about your revenge plan."
Firstly when such an incident happens to anyone, the first thought that comes into the mind at that moment is not revenge, the thought that bugs one first is the shame, the pain, the hurt, the betrayal, the resources spent, the time wasted, and how you would cope knowing that you will be the talk of the town and a mockery to many for as long as they can remember. I can not say that revenge will not come but it may come later after I have been able to sort myself out and live above the pain and traumas.
Revenge is not easy especially when it involves someone you love or once loved, don't get me wrong, the thought of revenge or the many bad things you would want to do to him would cross or come to your mind because we are humans and it is natural that when people hurt so bad the thing we would want to do is make them feel how we felt when they hurt us but it isn't easy because of our love and conscience.
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I am very sure that I will cry my heart for days or months, lock myself up, and stay alone, questioning or finding the answer to what happened and what led to him taking such actions that led to him betraying, hurting, and shaming me and my family and then when I am done crying and not finding answers or maybe finding answers, I will pick up myself, dust the dirt off me and move on with life.
I know it is never going to be an easy decision to take, but then, that is the best choice I can make for myself and the best revenge I can give to my ex-husband, well, not like I am living my life for him or impressing him though, but then, I believe that this world is small and maybe just one day, we will meet. I wouldn't want him to meet me where and how he left me.
I will move on with my life, achieve my goals, live my dream life, live my life to the fullest, and make sure to live my life like I wasn't faced with such a terrible experience. I am sure that is the best revenge I can give to such a person because nothing hurts such a person more than seeing you grow bigger and better than when they left you.
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