Image designed hereYes, definitely looks can and most times be deceiving, there is a saying that “we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover” and “the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know”.
Sometimes we as human we make mistakes because we are only humans and we’re not perfect but it would only be good if we tend to correct our mistakes or take corrections.
I’m literally soft at heart and I tend to trust people alot, but i had to learn my lesson the hard way, i learnt this lesson in school while i was in my 300 level, second semester.
WHAT I MEANT BY LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING
When i got my admission and entered into school, i met a girl, she was an half-cast, she was so pretty, looked very naive, was in a way down to earth, so we became friends, my family knew her, and her mum knew me also. So we also had other friends, but it was mainly her, her best friend, my younger sister and me. We were so close, the whole school knew us that we close friends, we shared thesame room, we shared stuffs together, we bought food for each other and we were happy. But like i said do not judge a book by its cover, before then, she told us that she was a vegetarian, she was same age with us, and we took it as normal, but later on things started becoming strange when we found that she way older than us with about 4 years of age difference, we saw that she started eating beef, she started eating anything that came by her way, but this was not even a big problem for me, the bigger problem for me was when she started going to after a guy that was going after my sister and was rubbing it our face as my sister was not around because she was sick and had to go home.
This girl was literally going to visit the guy and was calling him babe. Well i just said to myself that the guy is not worth, and I quickly advised my sister not to bother about the guy, because he knew that we all friends but he still let himself have something to do with our friend.
This girl also went as far as talking bad about us, saying that she was the one feeding us😂😂, she also almost got beaten by our neighbor after saying some bad things about her.
LESSON
-Well all i can is here is that i judge by her looks but ended being absolutely wrong because she did so many other things that i can’t even put to writing. And we shouldn’t just over trust people, we should observe very well before bring people close.
THE TIME I WAS RIGHT ABOUT JUDGING BY LOOKS
I always saw this guy walk pass my aunty’s shop, as i was mostly there because i was helping her out at the shop, he looked gentle and nice, sometimes he would come to the shop to buy some things, but we didn’t talk at time, i would always catch him looking at me 😅, but later on he approached me and said he wanted to be friends, so we started talking, he has been nice like i assumed, i have gotten gifts and also advices from him, generally he has been a nice guy.
LESSON
Yes we’ve been deceived by other people but not everyone have bad intentions towards us.✨
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