I come from a family that consists of the parents, children, uncles and aunties, yes I know everyone comes from that kind of family but mine was a little bit different, normally my immediate family is a large one, my mum gave birth to seven children, four boys and three girls, then my dad had extra two boys outside marriage, which made it nine children, although the two boys didn’t live with us at the beginning, but my uncles and aunties was, it was a very large family while I was growing up, infact to the extent that my dad’s younger sister had issues with her husband then, she started living with us with her two children, the three bedroom apartment was tight, some people would sleep in sitting room, on somedays my younger sister and I would relocate to my mothers room once my dad travels for work.