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Some people say people change while some say people just reveal who they have always been. This question is one that has really puzzled many people. Life is full of a lot of experiences, relationship so we got a lot of choices that continually shaped us to who we are. It is very common to sometimes ask ourself if this is the person you once knew, like they would reveal very different to you at some point and you wonder if this has always been what they were but didn't see it or they just unleashed this part of them out.
I believed it is in between because people definitely change and also reveal perts of them that they once hide and writing for the right time to unleash it. Normally, when we are in the beginning of a relationship , whether friendship or romance or even family, we don't really see their other side but their best side, because that is what we hope and want to see about them or maybe that is what they want us to see but we later realized overtime when we finally feel free and find comfort with hem.
Some circumstances we make you see that gentle person also has angry side of him or her or an happy person reveals his or her sadness parts . Does this mean they are changed? No, it's just the part of them tahg wasn't visible to us at first. Change is part of human race, as we encounter experiences like pain, failure, success or love, it's makes an impact on us. Change can be both negative or positive,it can make one become better in wisdom or patient and can also make one hardened up as well.
All I know is that there are some aspects of one's life that mostly remains cos stable, though change makes it less effective but it will never erase them. Someone truly kind will still have that side of kindness even after shege he or she experience. So, I believe that we are shaped by our experience and still we have within us that side who we really are. We are both same and different ,we are perpetually discovering who we actually becoming.
