Divorce: Escape, Trend, or Necessity?

The things around us are changing very fast, and if I talk about marriages, that too is changing very fast. Earlier, in relationships, people used to understand each other and adjust to each other, but now, the times have changed. I will not say that it is like this everywhere, but society is slowly moving in this direction. It becomes necessary for some people to get a divorce because they cannot bear the things that happen to them, but some people first take a divorce in the name of money. Everyone has their own thinking. Some people take a divorce because after marriage, their life is not the same as they had imagined, or all those incidents happen with them, maybe they have never even thought about it. How everyone's life is different, and everyone takes divorce according to that. The situation doesn't need to be like yours everywhere. In some places, there are still very big families, no divorces, and people live there with a lot of happiness and prosperity. The movies or the serials, and the celebrities make a huge impact on our society. Even if there is a new trend, when any celebrity any actor or actress brings it into the movies, then people get influenced by them. Similarly, nowadays the trend of Divorce is also increasing very fast, and it is being seen a lot in celebrities.

Many such people are doing the same thing, they just don't get married, you just go from one place to another and then demand alumni. see, this is a business for them, but see the person who goes through their danger; it is a very serious problem for them. Well, some people are forced to take a break/ divorce but some people take it as per their wish, see sometimes in relationships, when things don't go well, some people take a break for some time but some people don't think like this, they start looking for another partner or they have already found another partner, that is why they want to file for divorce. As I said, every time the conditions are different, sometimes someone takes a divorce voluntarily, sometimes there are many reasons due to which a divorce has to be taken, or some people take it.

When a child lives with his family where his parents, grandparents are there, not everyone gets such happiness where the whole happy family lives together. Earlier, this trend used to be very common, but now it is decreasing because most of the people today have nuclear families, and in such a situation, When the husband and wife fight, there is no one to take care of them. If they live in a joint family, then their parents or other family members who live with them make them understand, but if someone lives in a nuclear family, then it becomes a little difficult to make them understand. Nowadays, everyone is working and in such a situation, they are not able to take care of the children, but see, the more you earn, the more you will have to pay. Last year, there were many cases in India. I will not say that such cases are not happening now, but last year, some cases happened that came into the limelight, and they reflect the cruelty of our society.

Whenever we talk about harassment, you may think that a man harasses a woman, but many times it also happens that a woman harasses a man, and he gets upset because of it. Last year, there were some such cases in our society in which some people committed suicide because they were unable to bear it anymore. See, sometimes divorce has positive effects too. If you are troubled by a relationship, then you should get rid of it and not take some wrong steps that may put your life and other people's lives in danger. Sometimes it happens that some people get into a relationship under pressure from their family or relatives, but they are unable to accept it, or I should say they are unable to maintain it. In such a situation, it is wise to separate. If you do not want to enter into a relationship or do not want to accept it and still you are doing it under pressure, then your life is not going to go well and you will definitely have to face trouble and in such a situation, if you have the option of separating then you should do so.

If you have children, then you probably develop a little bit of attachment but look, you get the custody of the children, it depends on who is responsible for how much, half is responsible, if it is given to the mother, then the father has to bear the expenses, if the mother is a working woman, then even then you probably have to pay some expenses and being a father you will probably do this and the opposite can also happen, it depends on what the situation is.

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