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Dwayne Arveno

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· a day ago

Hi, i am Arveno from Surabaya city Indonesia. I want to share about the place that i used to be tributing flower to my Daughter since i spread the ashes on this sea. And this place is kinda like tourism spot in my city. But, sadly this place is kinda abandoned with the Developer. I dont know why being abandoned, but as far as i know many people said that this is place to giving tribute to the dead people. Actually Sanggar Agung is place like temple for Khong Hu Cu religion to pray. But, since i dont know its like lately in my country many Christian and Catholic religion seems like fade away for the tradition especially when handling the family that passed away. In the past what i know is family need to be buried, like my grandpa and my grandma from my mom side, they are still buried in their hometown. But, from the past 10 years i think many family that passed away like my grandpa from my dad lately is being burned in crematorium. And after that the ashes is spread on the sea. Maybe because the grave price is really expensive right now. And the maintenance of the grave is not cheap also. Thats why many Catholic and Christian on my family started change the tradition when any person passed away. My mom and my dad also said that for a long time that they want to be burned and dont want to be buried. It will make us their children not get troublesome. And i agree with that idea too, i also said to my wife and also to my son after they understand that i want to be burned on creamatorium too. I dont need to be buried. And talking about this sad moment. Actually last year i have sad news too. My daughter is dead because me and my wife need to terminate the pregnancy. My Daugher suffering Anenchepaly. This is defect that cannot be fixed. My Daughter does not have cranium at all. Thats why i need to call to terminate the pregnancy since the result will same anyway, Being born and die or terminate and die. And i dont want to harm my wife too, it is better hurting the soul and heart than she might get bad accident during the pregnancy and ended with broken heart too. So, i think the soon the better. And after that we decided to burn my daughter body and spread the ass on the s

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