My name's Abi and I am here to testify that boys and girls can be good friends (in Christ). Caption: That's me, feminine and sweet yet wanting to explore pure friendships with males.I grew up surrounded by female friends with only my dad, male cousins, uncles, and a very few male classmates as the male figures of my life. The rest of the males in my life were passive or simply bullies. In college, I entered the world of Engineering. As expected, I did have a lot of male classmates. I wasn't interested in establishing friendships with theme except for the "feminine ones". However, at the back of my mind, I prayed: "God, give me male friends. Those male friends who will widen my perspectives. I don't want to have male friends just because I want to have a boyfriend. I just want to learn and become a blessing to them."